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THOUGHTS
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On Broken Trust Comment ... " About a week ago Ibn was nice and soft and we got so far as to groom and pick feet without a halter on. Then disaster struck. Last Tuesday the Vet came to take a sample from his lumps for a biopsy and unfortunately I could not be there. Five people spent about 45 mins trying to catch him, without success. He even became aggressive and charged them when they got too close. Now we are back to square one. He will come close to me but will not even come in touching range when I have the halter in my hand. He will stand in the corner at the gate leading to the big paddock with his backside to me and not let me come close. The draw-back here is that I need to spray his sides to keep the flies away before I let him out to the big paddock, so I cannot just let it go at that and then slowly build again, which would be the desirable way of doing things. In short, he has become untrusting again. If I just let him out without trying to halter him first, when he walks past me through the gate, he will pin his ears and try and get away as quickly as possible. Even when I have a carrot in my hand, he will ignore that and disappear into the meadow :-(( " |
FROM: Gwenyth Browning Jones Santagate: |
| MORE on "BROKEN TRUST"
Jaki wrote: "As for Ibn being scared or spoiled......well, I'm a firm believer (now) in giving the horse the benefit of the doubt. It sounds to me as though you may be dealing with a horse who hasn't had any consistent or meaningful interaction with people." ---------------------------- FROM Gwenyth Browning Jones Santagate: Oh, I absolutely agree ... that's what I meant by spoiled ... This horse has been just being a horse and doing whatever it's been "allowed" to do ... *because* people have allowed him to continue with the behavior thus it's what he's been conditioned to do. No fault of his own! ... another "horse with a people problem"! *G* Yeah, Jaki ... always, always, always, give the horse the benefit of the doubt because horses MIRROR what people have shown them. In more ways than one. I've found that horses show us our best sides as well as our worst sides simply by 'mirroring' our human behavior. (something to really *think* about and chew and digest) This also goes along with being *assertive* without aggression. If this horse has formerly been "shown who's 'boss'", then this is a portion of his behavior combined with others who have perhaps felt threatened by this horse and allowed the horse to realize that he *is* bigger than the human! It's really a fine line but one that is crystal clear once we've *seen* it. (and FELT it! *G*) Horses have such fine-tuned sensitivities that so surpass the human's that, if we allow them to do so, ... horse *are* really our teachers and not visa versa. They teach us how to communicate clearly with them. And horses don't lie or play 'tricks' like humans can. But it's such a hard thing for many people to let go of the human 'intelligence' and ego that the human has a difficult time 'seeing' or 'feeling'. Horses NEED a leader. One way or the other. If human cannot or will not assume the role of "leader" then the horse HAS to. It's instinctual; it's equine survival. The best leaders are the ones to 'set things up' and let the other figure it out! *G* So, please don't misunderstand me when I say that Kristene's horse is a spoiled horse ... it is not the horse's intention to be spoiled but much like our own children ... our children are 'spoiled' only because we've *allowed* them to become such. *S* Gwen
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Gwenyth Browning Jones
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